Lemon To Lemonade

I like you. I, truly like you. Most times I seem not to understand the reason why I so much like you, I just like you, or should I say, I somewhat love you. I try to analyze why I like you and found out that it's not just the you I see, but, you are just special. You are rare, you are unique somehow still cant fetch the right words to use how adorable your looks are to me.

Maybe it’s the way that you walk, the way you talk, the style in your hair, your smile, your aura, your carriage, and the way you control people and things, maybe it’s the way you handle things, you are just unique. Your uniqueness is incomparable. And I silently, gladly wish you were mine. I wish you were still younger, I wish I had known you in my youthful days, I wish we had been friends, for a very long time. 

Let me not sin to say I want to steal you away from your man, let me not sin to tell you how much I want you. I will probably be in love with you for another million years just enjoying how I feel about you. You may not know it, but you have touched my heart with your eyes, with your words, with your ever-pretty looks. even when you are angry, I just wish I could kneel, hold you, and tell you to please forgive me. I wish I could walk in the beauty of your heart and tell you not to be angry, I wish I could buy you a thousand roses just to show how much I am truly sorry with some of my actions, another million roses to show how valuable you are to me.

Let me tell you a secret, if I have an opportunity to kiss your soft lips I wouldn't hesitate to hold you in my arms, kiss you, hug you, kiss you again, and watch you breathe in my arms. I wish we were younger, I wish I had met you on time. Your energy matched mine, and I know I may sound rude or act against some of your moves but that does not mean that I don’t honor you.

No one loves you like me, no one honours you like me, and no one will give you that value like me, because everything I do, I do it for us. For our betterment, for your good. Please forgive me once again for I am not perfect, I may be right in my own eyes sometimes, but wrong in your eyes, find it in your heart to forgive me and move on, let us make our environment a heaven on earth.

Smile my love, smile queen mother, smile when you see me, and be happy with me my love, I may not call you my love in public but I love you more than words can express, more than my lips can say. Haters of happiness will always want to put a seed of hate in your heart for me, but avoid them, show me that love, the lover you truly are. You have a sweet soul, you are a diviner, and your presence brings peace and love and fun and excess joy. don’t wake up today again with a frown, I have your back, and I will always love you even if you do not believe me.

Let us let go of yesterday, and move on to today with a new feeling of pure love. A feeling of peace, with kisses that never perish, let us turn all our lemons into lemonades. You are the star that I see. The reason why I am alive. Stand by me, stand with me, and I will be with your humble servant always. I love you

 

 

Do you truly love him/her, what's your Genotype?

What is a Genotype?

A genotype is the entire genetic constitution of an individual, i.e. the genetic makeup of an organism or group of organisms with reference to a single trait, set of traits, or an entire complex of traits. In a nutshell: your genotype is your complete heritable genetic identity; the sum total of genes transmitted from parent to offspring. No two human beings are the same. People could bear some form of resemblance, look-alike, act the same, perhaps talk the same, but in reality, no two people are absolutely identical. The genotype is the biological coding that ensures this specificity, uniqueness, and individuality.

Why it’s Important to Know Your Genotype

Knowing one's hemoglobin genotype before choosing a life partner is important because there may be compatibility issues which could have devastating effects when it comes to conception. If avoided from the beginning it will save us a lot of stress and money. Intending couples sharing information about each other’s blood genotype and blood group serve as an important forecasting guide for offspring’s genotype, quality of life & overall health.

True life story. a friend of mine, she is a medical laboratory scientist; we had a conversation and she told me her family experience because of her parent not checking their genotype before marriage. Her parent gave birth to seven children and only two survive. So, most times everything may not be spiritual as most Africans thinks but the issue of not knowing our genotype and marrying someone with incompatible genotype causes more arm than good.

Types of genotype

There are five (5) distinct types of blood genotype. They are AA, AS, AC, SS, and SC. While the first 2 pairs (AA & AS) are normal, AC is rare and the latter two (SS, SC) are abnormal, these two causes sickle cell disease. Sickle cell disease causes pain and damage vital organs.

The AA genotype has the best compatibility ratio. If you are AA you are good to go and can marry any other genotype. You are likely going to have an extremely minimal possibility of sickle-celled offspring. AA genotype are most susceptible to malaria.

Genotype compatibility

Before marriage, it is advisable that couple have pre-knowledge of their genotype status in other to prevent tears in their marriage. Kindy see the combination of genotype below to give you a clearer picture when it comes to choosing a life partner;

Combination:   Give Birth to

AA + AA =         AA, AA, AA, AA (Excellent)

AA + AS =         AA, AS, AA, AS, (Good)

AA + SS =         AS, AS, AS, AS, (Fair)

AA + AC =         AA, AA, AA, AC. (Good)

AS + AS =          AA, AS, AS, SS, (Very Bad)

AS + SS =           AS, SS, SS, SS, (Very Bad)

AS + AC =          AA, AC, AS, SS. (Bad; Advice needed)

SS + SS =            SS, SS, SS, SS, (Very Bad)

AC + SS =            AS, AS, SS, SS, (Very Bad)

AC + AC =            AA, AC, AC, SS. (Bad; Advice needed)

From all indication, The AS and AC genotype is best compatible with the AA remameber AC is rare. AA can marry anybody, AS and any other combincation is too risky, most times its only God that make it come out positive,

Note Two sickle cells = avoid conception (ie, don't give birth) to avoid future crisis

Sickle cell anaemia

It is an abnormal haemoglobin also know as sickle cell Anemia : A condition in which the blood doesn't have enough healthy red blood cells. Anaemia results from a lack of red blood cells or dysfunctional red blood cells in the body. This leads to reduced oxygen flow to the body's organs. The only advantage of these people is that they don't get sick of malaria.

As stated earlier, individuals with sickle cells experience severe pains in body parts where oxygen flow is compromised due to blockage in the blood vessels,

Sickle cell anaemia (or sickle cell disease aka SCD) in the world.

Every year, more than 150 000 babies are born with this serious condition. Also alarming is the estimation that only 5% of the affected babies in Nigeria live passed the age of 10 (in UK and USA over 96% of sufferers survive into adulthood). Those with SCD often struggle with education, employment and psychological development due to chronic pain and other complications associated with the disease.

Symptoms of Sickle Cell Anemia/Disease

The main symptom is recurrent episodes of pain, called crises. The pain is caused by the sickle-shaped red blood cells blocking blood flow to the chest, abdomen and joints. The intensity of the pain varies, but it can last for hours or even weeks. Other symptoms include: painful swelling of hands and feet, frequent infections, delayed growth, vision problems.

In conclusion, it is advisable to make the right decidion before you make that marriage vows. It is not a good moment to watch our loveones in pains because of the wrong decidion we have made, please lets avoid our kids going through such pain, please lets join hands together and create an awareness for a better healthy society. Please before it goes deeper in love, go and know your blood group.

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I AM BLUE IN LOVE

 I am blue in love with you, blue in view of the fact that, in your arms and voice and beautiful face I feel rationally amaze and opportune to be your friend, the lover to a beautiful personality like you. Love, a crazy unexplainable feelings of attachment to a total stranger, even when they do not know or realize how must you adore or want them in your life, you just keep on loving them. I love you.

My sweet love's mine; I have one problem, probably a curse. If, when, as I have like and fall in love with you, you cannot change me, even if you try. I have stored your name, your stature, your princessly walking steps, your beauty, all in my heart. Even when you piss me off, my heart forgives you in seconds, no grudges, no hard feelings all I want is you back to my life. It is you and I till earth pass away. Trust me, nothing can change my feelings, because I love the way I feel for you, and, it will badly hurt me to stop feeling this ways. I can not really remember the year I felt like this, its you and I, I am not allowing this feeling to die again.

When people says wonders are the supernaturally beautiful colorful sky in the night, I say the only wonders I have seen are the attractive eyes of yours, your powerful smile. In my eyes, your beauty radiates 360 degrees, beautifully, stylishly, and forcefully intruded into my shielded heart, I aspire to own you. Not to share you with anyone else, but to own every part of you.

You are a queen in the making, a goddess, not disguised, a crown that take over the room with her beautiful smile, elegancy and self-esteem. You are my worst desire, worst because I know the bountiful sharp broken glass I would climb to get to your heart. I wrongfully judge you from a hundred mile, but when I came close to you you were the best solid companion to have in my life. You are a beauty on earth, the beauty that eyes that behold has called you beautiful. Kisses to you my dream partner.

I am blue in love with you, I am loyal to your cause. They say love is lost, if this is lust, let me be lost in your arms forever, lets make love and forgive about the stress in this world.  I feel we have known each other for years, most times, I feel I should come across your desk and give you a perk in your cheek, a hug, or a warm soft long kiss. I wish I could look into your eyes and whisper, ‘hope you are good, hope nothing is bothering you. I just want you to be happy, stress free, live your life in peace, in a serene environment filled with love and massive wealth.

I love talking to you, whether physically or charting with you on the phone, I like the secret emotions that flows inside me, I wish I could pass through your phone, be by your side, kiss your chin or lips and return back to my seat with a whole loads of you gallivanting in my heart. You know some sweet memories never end, some sweet moments in life are what we want to play over and over again. My moment with you is what I wish should never end; you are sweet in all your ways.

I am blue in love, so glue to you. All I wish is for you to have this sweet emotion of mine so that we can be blue in love, glue together for ever more. I admire, and love you so much, please accept this letter of mine, as i wont stop thinking about you.

HOLD ME IN YOUR ARMS TONIGHT

Hold me in your arms tonight,

Prove, the love in the light of your smile,
engulf me with the beauty of your words, 

bury me with the sweetness of your voice;

who is as great as you?

who is as romantic as you?

Who is sweeter than the honeybomb?

In the street of love, I am a widower without you.
I am as small, a lovely puppy that need to be cuddle;
Hold me, and store me in the realm of your arms forever.
How do I unwind this misery of my misses,

The starvation of my love, the beauty I see in your eyes.

A thousand stare at your beautiful picture,
a million silent sleepy thought of you,

a billion chat on social medias,

36 millions calls, all this still cant quench the fire of my love.

You are the decoration in the wall of my heart,

the light that shines in darkness,

the reasosn I desire to wake up in the morning,

the reason  I must be rich,

the reason of my laughter, my bright lover,

You are the single-vision glasses I use to see.

You are the white cane that lead the way,

the only thing I 100% feel for;

You are greater than a thousand women.

I miss not only you, but also your shadow.

Tonight; perfect time; I and you, 

Only us.

I want to crunch you in love,

Hugs you for ten hours, stare at you for fifteen hours,

kissing your pliant lips for three hours, 

Tonight; perfect time; I and you.

Only us. Lets do it.

Your arms is my final resting place,

Tears of love flowing than my eyes,

Because I have miss this moment,

This time, this hidden feeling and

crazy apetite of you will I express.

As I am far from home;

I will hold you in my arm tonight,

when I hold you; you wont escape,

Until I drain the white lilly of sureness;

Drain me, take me, do it, be me.

For you are the main reason I breathe.

I am yours, now and forever

Just know that;

I  love you very much.

Silent Lover (Love Notes)

My beautiful crush, I feel you beyond the way you feel me, I adore you more than you adore me, I may not have expressed my Love for you, but you are more valuable than everyone around, more special because you have gain access to my heart. You may think, ''Why cant you just tell me, you love me? Why can you just ne man enough to say it" Because am considering the strings between us, am scared...

I watch how you have changed towards me recently. I watch your moves from afar, and wonder the offence I have commited that made you change towards me. Possibly, a new resolution for you to be left alone without been entangled in alluring emotional connection, disconnecting yourself to be more focus on other things. You never knew, I have really miss your face, i wish I could call your everyday, to be with you at least for an hour or two, or the whole day. It hurt that you have to changed.

Can we run away from love? Can we kill the feelings and just move on with our life? You might be strong to shut the door of your heart, and may not want our closeness, but, I will never let go of my high concentrated sweet feelings for you. Do you know people dont have the feelings of love this days? For me, the moment I became closer to you, I saw the beauty in your heart and you perfectly fit the one I need as a wife, I felt loved, I spontaneously feel in love with you, not your beauty because beauty fades, but the you in you. I love you.

I respect, honor and value you more than you value me. I allowed my love for you to cloud my judgement, I will fight for you in your absence, stand with you, and always be there for you. You are very special to me, you will always be special to me anywhere and anytime in the world. I enjoy the way I have allowed you to cloud my mind. I enjoyed the feelings, its reminds me of what romantic sensual feelings is after a long while.

I wish we have kissed, I wish for a long warm hug, I wish I could just spend 24hours with you. Just me and you no distractions, I want you to be happy and loved, loved by me, loved by all in me. Most times I wish we were much younger, I wish I had found you first, oh, how jealous am I, but so happy for you. I send my secret kisses at night, and wish I could get a warm long hug and perk from you at noon. But wishes are just like cold breeze.

Even if you change. I will still admire you, I will still cherish you, I will still love you, keeping your distance does not change my affection from you. You remain my inspiration, my motivator, and my Queen. Love you so much.

15 Tips To Become Addicted To Your Partner

There is a common adage that states that a whore is always a whore, but people seem to forget that one thing that is constant is life is changes. And anyone can change from been a bad person to become a better person for life. Today we are sharing a useful tip that can make people to become a faithful partner, if you like the tips, please don’t forget to share.

1.       Love your partner with all your heart, body, soul and spirit. For you to have the mindset of faithfulness you must totally love your partner with all you got.

2.       Never spend too much time admiring another woman less you will lust after them.

3.       Avoid close female/ male friends that have unlimited access to you. Temptation come when they are just too close beyond normal friendship. Anything can happen at any secret time, so avoid it, so they don’t misinterpret your emotions.

4.       Never Compare your partner to any other person, whether they are richer or better than your partner. Appreciate your partner the way they are. When you are married, remember your ex means expired lover. And any thing that has expired is poisonous. Never compare your ex with your hubby or wife.

5.       Always look into the eyes of your partner when having sex. Research has shown that 85% of people that have sex with their partner, 80% of their heart is not with their partner. They are either thinking of someone else or the pornography that they have watched. So always look into their eyes and store the memory in your heart.

6.       Always say I love you. Show that you love them, let them see it that you truly love them.

7.       Anything you see and desire in any other woman try and put it in your partner so that they can always be the one that has all the quality you desire.

8.       Whenever the feeling of lust arises for any other woman, go home and have sex with your wife, continuous sex will remove your mind from any other person.

9.       There is likely to be a reduced sex drive with your partner when you get married. So, learn to accept it and stop complaining. there is more responsibility at hand when you get married than when you were single. enjoy yourself whenever you have the time.

10.   If you want to stop masturbation, never watch pornography alone. Always call your partner to join you, the rest is history.

11.   Always impress your partner with gift. You don't need to be as rich as Dangote to be able to make your wife feel comfortable. Buy them any little thing you can, they will appreciate it

12.   Avoid having a side chic, a side-line side bae will slowly reduce the percentage of the love you have for your wife/ hubby.

13.   Always pray for each other. We are living in a world full of temptation. All the above will secure the physical body and the mind, but only prayers will secure the spiritual. Always prays for your partner.

14.   When you are on outing, drink alcohol according to your gauge. Drink is sweet, but once it is uncontrollable, anything can happen when someone is drunk. So, drink according to your gauge.

15.   No matter the night life and fun!! Always go back home to stay with your family. Too much of staying alone in the hotel may lead to temptation. Always go back to the house unless you are totally out of town.

Does Love Really Change A Person Inbuilt Character?

Everyone is born with a distinguishing quality or character that belongs to only them that can never change, no matter the place they find themselves. They can hide the trait for a while, pretend not to have it because of what they want to get from their partner. Sometimes, they may try to forcefully stop it, but over the years, they realise that they never change from their true self. Please don’t blame them, because that’s the real them, anything outside that is fake.

The effect on people character result from the environment, the family, the culture they grew up with, the things they involve themselves in while growing up. This act and habit becomes part of them, it either make others to rate them as good or bad. Nevertheless, one thing I have come to understand in life is, whether you are good, ugly or bad, there is someone created to love you the way you are.

We have seen scenarios where people go into relationship and marriages with the hope that their partner would change, or they can change their partner in marriage.  If you believe a man or lady would absolutely change from who they are to what you want after marriage, you are just deceiving yourself. Experience has shown that if they can’t change in courtship don’t expect them to totally change in marriage. The little things you dislike and complain about now, if you refuse to tackle it when you are still dating, it would turn into a bigger issue when you finally get married.

A good courtship is the bedrock of a successful marriage. But, most people that knows ‘’love is blind’’ seem to notice the negative trait in their partner that do not conform with their principles, yet they fail to curb it. You know the criteria you need in a life partner, you know your weakness, and you need someone that would complete you. Someone to rely on, someone to trust, when you meet someone with a diverse character, and you want to spend the rest of your life with that person, you need to know how to change them so that both of you can fit.

Marriage is eternal, you are not supposed to get married and divorce. So, before you jump into it, endeavour to tackle any trait you don’t like. Learn to tackle things while you are still dating, tackle it now or never, you know what you don’t like in a partner, say it out, express yourself. If they can’t change while you are dating, they may never change in marriage.

If you are not getting that joy, the money and comfort while dating, don't expect to get it in marriage. If they do not place you as high priority in courtship do not expect it in marriage. If they beat while dating, expect it in marriage. it is a give and take thing, majority of the things you get while dating gets bigger or decreases in marriage. That’s why you need a real partner, a staright forwarward partner not a pretender.

So, know what you want, know what you can and can’t tolerate. Majority of divorce is as a result of intolerable unchangeable attitude that they fail to tackle while dating.

There are two ways to tackle the problem.

1.    Teach them what you want and ensure they change: There are some unpleasant attitude, actions or habit that some people cannot take in their partner. Some people don’t like someone that drinks alcohol, someone that smokes, a talkative, a hot-tempered person, stingy partner, a luxurious spender, some hate this habit and character because of their religious or cultural belief.

You know the trait you don’t like. When you finally meet the one you love. You need to tell them the truth and give them the reasons why you don’t like that bad habit, and trait they possess. Bear it in mind that they will not automatically change, it takes a gradual process. Just give them time, tell them how much you love them and how their changes can make your love world a better place on earth.

You can put them in prayers as some habit or trait might be spiritual, so pray for them to change. With time they will change. note that, 80% of them that change are those that were not born with the trait. They learned it while growing up. They pick it up from the society. They will change because of their love for you.

2.    Love them the way they are: True love can calm some people down, it can reduce their reaction, but can never change them. When you come across a lover that refuses to change, you need to understand their person, and know that, no one is perfect. Sometimes their negative trait might be useful when the need arise.

That trait or habit you don’t like, there are others out there that truly likes them the way they are. While don’t you try and show some love and accept them the way they are. Statistic has shown that happily married couples that live for 30 to 40 years in marriage and moree are those that accept their partner the way they are. They are rough, tough, bad as some other people may rate them, but they love eachother the way they are because they do not pretend.

Therefore, you need to like them for been original.  Understand their character, appreciate them, and you will have a total peace of mind.

Marriage is sweet, although it may not be rosy at all time, it is glorious. Decisively, ensure to tackle the things you cannot carry into marriage and try to accept your partner the way they are before you propose or say, Yes, I do. People that pretend before marriage always show their true colours after marriage. Don’t allow anyone to bamboozle you that they are better than the one you think are bad. Get wisdom, get understanding. Love is free, your happiness matters a lot in marriage.

6 Things To Avoid To Have A Happy Home.

The day you lay your hand on your wife, you lay your hand on yourself. Because Marriage makes both of you to be one, you made the vows, don't break it. If you beat up your wife mercilessly, know that you are offending God. If you don't love her, why then did you marry her? If you think you made a mistake, why then did you fall in love with her? After these years of sweet togetherness, why the sudden hatred?

If she nag too much, walk away. Women only have mouth to boast and talk, they don't have strength to fight. Whenever they tell you, ''you can’t touch me, you can’t beat me, i will show you, my family will deal with you, or try it, I swear, I will do this n that.’’ please don't listen to them, just try not to let them push you to that point where you use violence. Walk away from them if you can’t bear it.

Six things to avoid to have a peaceful home;

1. Not all advice from your family members about your wife/husband should be acceptable, watch it, so you don't start having issues in your home.

2. Not all information from outsiders like friends, neighbors you should listen to, watch it, so that they don't sow the wrong seed in your heart.

3. Be contented with what you have, and be focus in where you are going to in life.

4. Don't CHEAT. Cheating is one of the things that can break your feelings for your partner. Run away from it.

5. Always forgive each other easily, nobody is perfect, there is a possibility of making the wrong decision sometimes, try and forgive and restore the love and peace in your home.

6. Never repeat the same mistake, lets it becomes a habit, don't take your partner for a fool, and respect them.

Remember, everyone is not happy that you have a lovely perfect home, there are so many homes that are trying to be like yours, and there are many ladies / men out there that are ready to break that happiness. Be wise, they may be very close to you. Stop telling people about your family, have some secrets.

15 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD DELAY SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP

Sex has become one of the major reasons why most people are going into a relationship. 95% of men that says you are beautiful have actually seen beyond what you can see.  Some ladies have given their body out because they are scared of losing the one they love, in the end, majority of them still lost it.

Here are 15 reasons why you should delay sex in a relationship;

1.       Sex is not love. Sex does not prove how much you love each other.

2.       Sex is not a guarantee that you own each other’s heart, body and soul.

3.       Sex is not an avenue to totally win their heart.

4.       Sex does not mean you have totally given everything to them. They know what they want.

5.       Sex does not guarantee marriage.

6.       Delaying sex gives you more time to understand each other to know if you totally match to be together forever.

7.       Delaying sex improves your true feelings of love, It makes you to grow more natural affection for each other that lust.

8.       It shows if they truly love you for who you are and not what you have.

9.       It buys you more time to dig deep and know more about the person true background.

10.   If the relationship breaks, you still have your pride, your dignity which they will respect forever.

11.   It buys you time to understand their motives.

12.   It makes you not to look cheap and easy.

13.   It gives you time to make the right decision.

14.   It push the bad guys away, although many would stay just to get what they want, but as times goes on when they know you are different not a pretender, its either they leave and go for someone else that will give it to them cheaply or they will fall in love with you because you are rare.

15.   Sex is a spiritual bond, its goes beyond the physical pleasure. So give it to someone you want to be tied together forever. Not just any mouth lip lover.

Believe me, you are highly respected when they can’t have you, and you will definitely be proud of yourself. Sex is more pleasurable in marriage.  Go for someone that is ready to sacrifice all they have just to have you as their life partner, someone that truly love you for who you are, not because they want to have sex with you, but because they want you

for life.

ROMANTIC VALENTINE MESSAGES

1)     😍 Distance is like a nuclear weapon send to destroy the island of love. Seconds turns into hours, hours turn into day, days turns into week, weeks turn into months, and months turns into years. Yet my love for you remains strong Just as the first day we fell in love. I miss you so much, Happy valentine.😗

      

 

 2)      😘My love I wish I am there with you, the weather is cool, the day is colourful, today is ours. today valentines day is the same day we begin our love life. We are plus one in our sweetness of love today. Happy valentine day.😍

3)     💗 You are my everyday gift. Whenever I look at the mirror I see a reflection of you, you are the reason I am in the realm of love, the reason why I'm in love. happy valentine day💗

4)      😍There are some people we miss in life, those we love. even though it doesn’t turn out well, we know in our heart we have strong feelings for them. My dear, this is just to let you know how much you mean to me. You are more than a friend, more than a brother/ sister; you are like my flesh, the bone of my bones. I miss you, happy valentine.💗

5)      💝A good friend is the one that remembers you, even when you don’t remember them. They are the ones that cherish your presence & absence. The one that appreciate every little thing you do.my dear  you have never been forgotten: every day I still think about you. I am that good friend, that have always adores you. Happy valentine.😍

             

6)      😍Life has thought me that you can run away from your home, but          you    can’t run away from your destiny, you can run away from your        reflection on the mirror; but you can’t run away from yourself, you can run  away from falling in love, but you can’t run away from your heart. I have tried  to run away from you, but still i cant stop my feelings for you, I need you in my life,  happy valentine.😗

     

   7)      😘My heart is stronger than the rock, my lips are tightly sealed, my heart can see, yet it can’t stare at you for long. All these feelings I have hidden from you. Today is valentine’s day, a lover’s day, I want to start my love life with you. Will you be my valentine?😍

      

       8)      💙The birds whistle, the fowl crows, babies’ chuckles, the rain rush.. Each time I see you, my heart freezes. Something awesome moves through me. For a moment, I pause to think of the kick, the hat, the drum, the guitar and the piano my heart plays for you. It is a sweet rhythm of love. A feeling for only a queen like you. Happy valentine. love you so much.💚

     9)      💛 Relationship is a battlefield; it is either we win or lose. Many have lost the battle before it began, many lost it while on the field, but it has been years now, I am still winning & will continue to win because I have you as my perfect life partner. Happy valentine💧.

 10) My love, valentine fell in a day that my boss will not allow me to see you in the early hours. Am just smiling, feeling greatly happy, dancing and bubbling. Guest what? I am happy because every day with you is my valentine day. I can’t wait to see you today... love you.💋

   

THE THREE (3) STAGES OF LOVE.

Love is a word we hear every day, it is a feeling everyone feel, it is a word we wish people should always truthfully tell us. when we are ripe of age, we fall in love with someone we feel are the best for us. But most times, loves disappoint us because we fail to understand that there are stages of love. Not until you understand the stages of love, you will keep getting hurt by the feelings of love. here are the three (3) stages of love.

1) STAGE ONE - FALLING IN LOVE: Falling in love is the first phase of love. As we grow older in life there is a tendency that we will fall in love with someone we desire or someone we do not desire from the onset but as times goes by, we fall in love with them. This stage seems to be the most memorable and sweetest of all stage. the warmth feeling is like that of a new born baby that everyone cares about, you don’t think love can hurt, no pain, all you talk about and need is the one you love. you gradually become foolish and can do everything just to make your partner happy. But is this feeling really it. Does falling in love means you will stay together forever, NO.

Facts has shown that falling in love with someone does not guarantee that that person is the one we would marry. We fall in love with different motive to different people, but love is beyond our personal imagination, its beyond our self-interest, its beyond what we/they want, it is beyond what/how we feel. when love is on fire from the onset and looks so perfect, be careful. Always ask yourself does he/she really love me as he/she claims? Do you really think they love you as they claim? Are you sure they are ready for a lifetime relationship with you? What is the probability that you will not be separated?

Falling in love is a good thing, but remember people fall in and out of love; when you fall in love know that it is just the first stage of love, it is not the future, it doesn’t mean the relationship must end well, times is the core evident that will tell. if the two partners make their decision, they can grow from just falling in love.

Remember, you can fall in love over and over again, so don’t think is only that person you can fall in love with; Falling in love is human nature. if falling in love doesn’t guarantee love, what then is true love. This lead us to stage two.

2)  STAGE TWO – LIVING IN LOVE: Living in love is a very exotic stage in love. We feel loved, we fall in love, and wish the feelings never dies. But, what happen after the love at first sight, after the first month, the first year, the passion, the sex, the emotional connectivity. What’s next after falling in love? We live together.

Living together does not really imply staying with each other in the same house, it means the time and effort we spent loving that special person, the spirit of always wanting them around, they live in us so we give them room to control our being.

Living in love is the ability to stay in a relationship, it is the process of building the relationship. Living in love goes beyond falling in love, this is what expectant liable matured minds do. The don’t just fall in love, they live in it (stay together)

Living in love shows you are capable to live together.  you grow to understand each other differences. You accept the ones you can and change the ones that you can’t accept. You become very tolerant, what you can’t tolerate from another person, you start tolerating it. You try and become faithful to each other, you obey each other, and try to make decisions together. You start introducing yourself to your friends, your family members, your colleagues. People begins to admires your love life. Living in love is sweet, you feel it’s alright and you would be together forever, but does that guarantee you two would be together forever, NO.

Living in love is just a second stage of the feelings of love. Anything can happen: the forceful barriers of love like family, religion, personal goals and interest, impatient, boredom, the fear of the future etc. can change the mind-set of one of the partner and call the shot for separation. When you are living in love, you are still alive, vibrant, free and accommodating. You can still have feelings for someone else, you can still fall in love with someone else or have sex with someone else if you have the slightest opportunity.

Living in love shows we all need a partner, we want someone to love us, someone to call our lover, someone to tell others is our partner, but does that really join us together forever. Just as society changes with time, some people emotion changes with time. So with all the cooing and booing, the living together, friends and family intervening while is living in love not the final feelings of love.

3) STAGE THREE: KEEPING THE FEELINGS OF LOVE: this is the third and final stage of love. In fact, this is the true meaning of love, the only thing that join two different being together. You can fall in and out of love, you can live in love and be living together and still fall out of it in due time, but if you are able to nurture your feelings, grow together, exchange your hearts and decide to go the extra miles to be together you are definitely keeping the feelings of love.

Keeping the feeling of love is the unbreakable spirit of love, it is the unchangeable feelings, the indispensable undeniable feelings of love. Keeping the feelings brings happiness, despite the present downtrodden situation, you have hope against hope in the one you love. You never losses feelings, you surrender your heart for better or worse. You become strong and encourage each other. this is what lead to marriage, when we have someone that truly shares our feelings.

you need to understand that you don’t just fall in love, you don’t just live in love, you keep that feelings, the fire of love keeps on burning every, its unquenchable. Keeping the feelings of love makes you to listen to each other, it makes you to work as a team. Despite the temptation, the fighting, the quarrel, the difference, in our heart we know they are still the best, so we settle immediately. All the tsunami of love that breaks falling in love cannot stop a strong heart that has kept the feelings of their lover. And years after years your feelings for each other is as the first day you fell in love. Your passion never fades, even in fifty years’ time you are still the same love birds. This is the feelings our parent of old has, they summit themselves to each other, they listen and respect each other. that is why, no breakup, no divorce till death do they part.

Conclusively, to safeguard our heart know that when we fall in love, it is just the first stage of love. We need to consider if the relationship will lead to marriage. Falling in love is sometimes beyond our power and expectation, but what are we expecting in return. We need to be love back. So we decide to live in love. Living in love could actually lead to keeping the feelings of love if both partners has decided to love each other despite the resistant forces of love. Try and get used to each other character, learn to tolerate each other, don’t cheat, don’t lie. Grow to keeping the feelings of love.

Keeping the feelings of love is a personal decision, it can also come when we finally meet the right person. when we find the right partner and study to know they truly love us, learn to nurture your feelings. Watch your partner if they are keeping the feelings of love, or just in love with you, if they like you the way you are not ready to take the relationship to the next level they are not ready to keep you in their heart forever.

Keeping the feelings of love is to be satisfied with the one you love. So let’s learn to keep the feelings after falling in love.