The day you lay your hand on your wife, you lay your hand on
yourself. Because Marriage makes both of you to be one, you made the vows,
don't break it. If you beat up your wife mercilessly, know that you are
offending God. If you don't love her, why then did you marry her? If you think
you made a mistake, why then did you fall in love with her? After these years
of sweet togetherness, why the sudden hatred?
If she nag too much, walk away. Women only have mouth to
boast and talk, they don't have strength to fight. Whenever they tell you,
''you can’t touch me, you can’t beat me, i will show you, my family will deal
with you, or try it, I swear, I will do this n that.’’ please don't listen to
them, just try not to let them push you to that point where you use violence.
Walk away from them if you can’t bear it.
Six things to avoid to have a peaceful home;
1. Not all advice from your family members about your
wife/husband should be acceptable, watch it, so you don't start having issues
in your home.
2. Not all information from outsiders like friends,
neighbors you should listen to, watch it, so that they don't sow the wrong seed
in your heart.
3. Be contented with what you have, and be focus in where
you are going to in life.
4. Don't CHEAT. Cheating is one of the things that can break
your feelings for your partner. Run away from it.
5. Always forgive each other easily, nobody is perfect,
there is a possibility of making the wrong decision sometimes, try and forgive
and restore the love and peace in your home.
6. Never repeat the same mistake, lets it becomes a habit,
don't take your partner for a fool, and respect them.
Remember, everyone is not happy that you have a lovely
perfect home, there are so many homes that are trying to be like yours, and
there are many ladies / men out there that are ready to break that happiness.
Be wise, they may be very close to you. Stop telling people about your family,
have some secrets.