15 Tips To Become Addicted To Your Partner

There is a common adage that states that a whore is always a whore, but people seem to forget that one thing that is constant is life is changes. And anyone can change from been a bad person to become a better person for life. Today we are sharing a useful tip that can make people to become a faithful partner, if you like the tips, please don’t forget to share.

1.       Love your partner with all your heart, body, soul and spirit. For you to have the mindset of faithfulness you must totally love your partner with all you got.

2.       Never spend too much time admiring another woman less you will lust after them.

3.       Avoid close female/ male friends that have unlimited access to you. Temptation come when they are just too close beyond normal friendship. Anything can happen at any secret time, so avoid it, so they don’t misinterpret your emotions.

4.       Never Compare your partner to any other person, whether they are richer or better than your partner. Appreciate your partner the way they are. When you are married, remember your ex means expired lover. And any thing that has expired is poisonous. Never compare your ex with your hubby or wife.

5.       Always look into the eyes of your partner when having sex. Research has shown that 85% of people that have sex with their partner, 80% of their heart is not with their partner. They are either thinking of someone else or the pornography that they have watched. So always look into their eyes and store the memory in your heart.

6.       Always say I love you. Show that you love them, let them see it that you truly love them.

7.       Anything you see and desire in any other woman try and put it in your partner so that they can always be the one that has all the quality you desire.

8.       Whenever the feeling of lust arises for any other woman, go home and have sex with your wife, continuous sex will remove your mind from any other person.

9.       There is likely to be a reduced sex drive with your partner when you get married. So, learn to accept it and stop complaining. there is more responsibility at hand when you get married than when you were single. enjoy yourself whenever you have the time.

10.   If you want to stop masturbation, never watch pornography alone. Always call your partner to join you, the rest is history.

11.   Always impress your partner with gift. You don't need to be as rich as Dangote to be able to make your wife feel comfortable. Buy them any little thing you can, they will appreciate it

12.   Avoid having a side chic, a side-line side bae will slowly reduce the percentage of the love you have for your wife/ hubby.

13.   Always pray for each other. We are living in a world full of temptation. All the above will secure the physical body and the mind, but only prayers will secure the spiritual. Always prays for your partner.

14.   When you are on outing, drink alcohol according to your gauge. Drink is sweet, but once it is uncontrollable, anything can happen when someone is drunk. So, drink according to your gauge.

15.   No matter the night life and fun!! Always go back home to stay with your family. Too much of staying alone in the hotel may lead to temptation. Always go back to the house unless you are totally out of town.

Does Love Really Change A Person Inbuilt Character?

Everyone is born with a distinguishing quality or character that belongs to only them that can never change, no matter the place they find themselves. They can hide the trait for a while, pretend not to have it because of what they want to get from their partner. Sometimes, they may try to forcefully stop it, but over the years, they realise that they never change from their true self. Please don’t blame them, because that’s the real them, anything outside that is fake.

The effect on people character result from the environment, the family, the culture they grew up with, the things they involve themselves in while growing up. This act and habit becomes part of them, it either make others to rate them as good or bad. Nevertheless, one thing I have come to understand in life is, whether you are good, ugly or bad, there is someone created to love you the way you are.

We have seen scenarios where people go into relationship and marriages with the hope that their partner would change, or they can change their partner in marriage.  If you believe a man or lady would absolutely change from who they are to what you want after marriage, you are just deceiving yourself. Experience has shown that if they can’t change in courtship don’t expect them to totally change in marriage. The little things you dislike and complain about now, if you refuse to tackle it when you are still dating, it would turn into a bigger issue when you finally get married.

A good courtship is the bedrock of a successful marriage. But, most people that knows ‘’love is blind’’ seem to notice the negative trait in their partner that do not conform with their principles, yet they fail to curb it. You know the criteria you need in a life partner, you know your weakness, and you need someone that would complete you. Someone to rely on, someone to trust, when you meet someone with a diverse character, and you want to spend the rest of your life with that person, you need to know how to change them so that both of you can fit.

Marriage is eternal, you are not supposed to get married and divorce. So, before you jump into it, endeavour to tackle any trait you don’t like. Learn to tackle things while you are still dating, tackle it now or never, you know what you don’t like in a partner, say it out, express yourself. If they can’t change while you are dating, they may never change in marriage.

If you are not getting that joy, the money and comfort while dating, don't expect to get it in marriage. If they do not place you as high priority in courtship do not expect it in marriage. If they beat while dating, expect it in marriage. it is a give and take thing, majority of the things you get while dating gets bigger or decreases in marriage. That’s why you need a real partner, a staright forwarward partner not a pretender.

So, know what you want, know what you can and can’t tolerate. Majority of divorce is as a result of intolerable unchangeable attitude that they fail to tackle while dating.

There are two ways to tackle the problem.

1.    Teach them what you want and ensure they change: There are some unpleasant attitude, actions or habit that some people cannot take in their partner. Some people don’t like someone that drinks alcohol, someone that smokes, a talkative, a hot-tempered person, stingy partner, a luxurious spender, some hate this habit and character because of their religious or cultural belief.

You know the trait you don’t like. When you finally meet the one you love. You need to tell them the truth and give them the reasons why you don’t like that bad habit, and trait they possess. Bear it in mind that they will not automatically change, it takes a gradual process. Just give them time, tell them how much you love them and how their changes can make your love world a better place on earth.

You can put them in prayers as some habit or trait might be spiritual, so pray for them to change. With time they will change. note that, 80% of them that change are those that were not born with the trait. They learned it while growing up. They pick it up from the society. They will change because of their love for you.

2.    Love them the way they are: True love can calm some people down, it can reduce their reaction, but can never change them. When you come across a lover that refuses to change, you need to understand their person, and know that, no one is perfect. Sometimes their negative trait might be useful when the need arise.

That trait or habit you don’t like, there are others out there that truly likes them the way they are. While don’t you try and show some love and accept them the way they are. Statistic has shown that happily married couples that live for 30 to 40 years in marriage and moree are those that accept their partner the way they are. They are rough, tough, bad as some other people may rate them, but they love eachother the way they are because they do not pretend.

Therefore, you need to like them for been original.  Understand their character, appreciate them, and you will have a total peace of mind.

Marriage is sweet, although it may not be rosy at all time, it is glorious. Decisively, ensure to tackle the things you cannot carry into marriage and try to accept your partner the way they are before you propose or say, Yes, I do. People that pretend before marriage always show their true colours after marriage. Don’t allow anyone to bamboozle you that they are better than the one you think are bad. Get wisdom, get understanding. Love is free, your happiness matters a lot in marriage.

6 Things To Avoid To Have A Happy Home.

The day you lay your hand on your wife, you lay your hand on yourself. Because Marriage makes both of you to be one, you made the vows, don't break it. If you beat up your wife mercilessly, know that you are offending God. If you don't love her, why then did you marry her? If you think you made a mistake, why then did you fall in love with her? After these years of sweet togetherness, why the sudden hatred?

If she nag too much, walk away. Women only have mouth to boast and talk, they don't have strength to fight. Whenever they tell you, ''you can’t touch me, you can’t beat me, i will show you, my family will deal with you, or try it, I swear, I will do this n that.’’ please don't listen to them, just try not to let them push you to that point where you use violence. Walk away from them if you can’t bear it.

Six things to avoid to have a peaceful home;

1. Not all advice from your family members about your wife/husband should be acceptable, watch it, so you don't start having issues in your home.

2. Not all information from outsiders like friends, neighbors you should listen to, watch it, so that they don't sow the wrong seed in your heart.

3. Be contented with what you have, and be focus in where you are going to in life.

4. Don't CHEAT. Cheating is one of the things that can break your feelings for your partner. Run away from it.

5. Always forgive each other easily, nobody is perfect, there is a possibility of making the wrong decision sometimes, try and forgive and restore the love and peace in your home.

6. Never repeat the same mistake, lets it becomes a habit, don't take your partner for a fool, and respect them.

Remember, everyone is not happy that you have a lovely perfect home, there are so many homes that are trying to be like yours, and there are many ladies / men out there that are ready to break that happiness. Be wise, they may be very close to you. Stop telling people about your family, have some secrets.

15 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD DELAY SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP

Sex has become one of the major reasons why most people are going into a relationship. 95% of men that says you are beautiful have actually seen beyond what you can see.  Some ladies have given their body out because they are scared of losing the one they love, in the end, majority of them still lost it.

Here are 15 reasons why you should delay sex in a relationship;

1.       Sex is not love. Sex does not prove how much you love each other.

2.       Sex is not a guarantee that you own each other’s heart, body and soul.

3.       Sex is not an avenue to totally win their heart.

4.       Sex does not mean you have totally given everything to them. They know what they want.

5.       Sex does not guarantee marriage.

6.       Delaying sex gives you more time to understand each other to know if you totally match to be together forever.

7.       Delaying sex improves your true feelings of love, It makes you to grow more natural affection for each other that lust.

8.       It shows if they truly love you for who you are and not what you have.

9.       It buys you more time to dig deep and know more about the person true background.

10.   If the relationship breaks, you still have your pride, your dignity which they will respect forever.

11.   It buys you time to understand their motives.

12.   It makes you not to look cheap and easy.

13.   It gives you time to make the right decision.

14.   It push the bad guys away, although many would stay just to get what they want, but as times goes on when they know you are different not a pretender, its either they leave and go for someone else that will give it to them cheaply or they will fall in love with you because you are rare.

15.   Sex is a spiritual bond, its goes beyond the physical pleasure. So give it to someone you want to be tied together forever. Not just any mouth lip lover.

Believe me, you are highly respected when they can’t have you, and you will definitely be proud of yourself. Sex is more pleasurable in marriage.  Go for someone that is ready to sacrifice all they have just to have you as their life partner, someone that truly love you for who you are, not because they want to have sex with you, but because they want you

for life.